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发表于 2016-3-21 16:06:03 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
那些年的忽悠
2014年11月27日星期四东莞晴
人类,之所以伟大,我觉得一是善于劳动,二是用于思考,三是敢于挑战,战胜恐惧。
前几天,点点狼在南阁大桥上的时候和我说:“祥哥,可能这开始的几天会不太习惯,还是要点点滴滴的去改善,要让自己适应我们野狼魂才好!”
我说:“万科的王石你知道的吧?做房地产的那个。”
他说:“知道!”
我说:“他曾经对媒体爆料说自己每天都要干一件自己不喜微商代理起步的技巧——微商所必备知识欢干的事情。”
他说:“好像还出书了。”
我说:“这个我就不是特别清楚,反正每一个人如果是在成长的话就一定会改变原有的一些习惯了的习惯,把原来的一些不习惯变成习惯,再把习惯变成喜欢。简单点说就是我们每天都会像自虐一般逼迫自己去做一些之前所不愿意或坚决不的事情。&rdq2016年微商如何正规化运作?uo;
他说:“是啊,涅盘都是在阵痛后的重生。”
我回想自己人生的这些年,我发现其实很多时候我都是在做一些自己不太乐意和喜欢的事情,所以身边的朋友微商新手都说,这小伙子在成长,到目前为止我还真的没有听人说过我比去年,比前几年 2016年给微电商人的10个方向性的建议退步的,当然要排除说我比以前壮实目前微商热门行业了一点,活着是没有之前那么帅之类的,我所说的进步是内在,是心智,是学识,是气场。
我自己分析了一下,出现这种状况只有两种可能,一种是大家都在说假话,检好听的说给我;第二种是确实是这么回事。
我想,让大家说假话来哄我开心,貌似我还没有做到那个位置,我的朋友们不需要拍我的马屁的,何况还有一部分人是以打击我为乐趣的朋友存在,所以说他们检好话来诓我,我觉得这个不是特别的可能,反倒可能大家真心的是老实话,我确实未曾退步而是在不断进步中。
那么这种进步具体是些什么呢?
我觉得我是在常常战胜恐惧与怕,我曾今解析过‘怕’这个字,怕就是白字的旁边一个竖心旁,饮食清淡清热解毒透邪晁恩祥不提倡都用药,说白了就是白白的担心。既然是白担心,那么我们还去怕啥呢?就不要再怕了。事实上我这些年常常就是在做自己怕做,不愿做,不想做的事情,所以我就有了变化,有了进步,有了新的收获。
比如我挺害怕和某人沟通的,因为他太罗嗦,因为他态度不好,因为他总是觉得自己是对的,别人都是错的,因为他总是爱钻牛角尖,所以我怕和他沟通,至少是不喜欢和他沟通,但是我又常常在心里想,如果我连和他沟通的勇气都没有,怎么可能与他合作,怎么可能达成自己的目标呢?于微商卖衣服赚钱吗是我就鼓起勇气和他沟通,不断的沟通之后,我发现他其实就是那种天生一般的受虐性子,你好好和他说话,他反倒会不舒服,不自在,类似网上流传的一个段子“您好,客服9527为您服务”中的那个顾客。
后来我就不怕与他沟通了,反倒是别人和他沟通不到的我就大骂过去,然后他就开开心心的去干了。这是一个类别的人,不是指的某一个人,反正我们仔细去发现或许我们自己的身边也有类似这样的人。不信你试试,按照他们喜欢的方式去沟通,然后效果确实蛮好。无需害怕,怕是白担心。
我害怕上当受骗,害怕失败,害怕被嘲笑,所以,我常常固步自封,裹足不前。
比如我害怕那一天野狼魂倒闭了,然后身边的朋友笑话我,自己笑话自己,自己把自己打败了。然后我就不敢有大动作,因为我害怕大动作会伤筋动骨,所以野狼魂做了两年了业绩也还是在几百万上徘徊。我倒也不是第这个基数的不满意,也不是想要追求开快车,而是我想表达,很多时候我应该在抬头看天低头走路的时候,减轻自己身上的行囊,无需背上一些不用我们的背负的包袱。
我害怕被别人骗,所以我很怕与人合作,特别是关于资金,我发现我是常常被骗的对象。
第一次被骗是在我从大学校园离开的时候,找工作,想找轻松的活儿做,于是看到贴纸的招聘上说招聘储备主管于是去了,然后就是交各种费用,怀孕4个月可以做B超检查吗?”“我怀孕,服装微商能做吗费,开户费,培训费等等,一共600元,找我表姐借的,最后傻傻的被安排在一个塑胶玩具厂做了一个礼拜的普工才知道,原来我上当被骗了。
第二次是在贵州老家养鸡的时候,被我的合伙人把我从银行贷回来的款全部卷走了,我是在他已经离开之后才知道的,但是我觉得人家一个城里的孩子和我一起去贵州的大山里面养鸡其实蛮不容易的,所以那些钱也就当作是给他的回报吧,算是安慰一下自己,也算是找个借口不让自己那么难过。
第三次是在重庆做网络公司的时候,被老鱼缸同志给忽悠了,直到现在还欠债我几千块呢,钱是一定收不到了,为了弄清事实真相我们随后向多家国家,谈谈霸王,至于人嘛这辈子估计见到的几率也是很小的了。
第四次是在我进入包装行业的时候,那一年一张白纸,换走了我30来万的提成,我只想说,忽悠,接着忽悠,早晚把自己也给忽悠完蛋。
第五次是朋友找我借钱,借的很少,就2000,但是最后就是一直不还,他不是没有钱还,无眠之夜的泪,是就是怎么也不还,我也不是没有催过他,但是他就是不还,所以我不借钱给朋友花,微商汇平台我害怕微商入门伤害感情,当然我也没有钱借给朋友花。
再后来我就有点点后怕了,就有点点不敢去做一些事情了。直到最后,我明白,我们每个人其实都有过类似的经历,被忽悠。如果被忽悠过就不再前进的话可能现在有很多人需要做的事情是在家玩着,歇着。
昨天下午,夜狼过来玩;我们还说到过我被忽悠的这几件事情;晚上我做梦也梦到了这件事情。现在,梳理了思想,觉得其实我还蛮感谢那些年忽悠过我的人的,谢谢他们让我更成熟了一些,让我在前行的路上多了一点点的防范意识,来生,如果有来生,如果有轮回,大家再慢慢的还我也行。
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